Monday, July 31, 2006

MEL GIBSON IS PRODUCING A TV FOR ABC ABOUT THE HOLOCAUST

Mel Gibson is producing a mini series about the Holocaust for ABC TV. Are they nutz? Of all the people on the planet, they pick an anti-Semite to produce something about the Holocaust. With thousands of producers, why would they ever consider him. Have they seen the Passion of the Christ? Do they know his father is a Holocaust denier?
There is no way Mel Gibson can be "passionate" about the Holocaust project. Please write on this blog and help me to convincwe ABC to dump Mel Gibson. No person with so much hate for Jews should ever do a project about something as sensitive as the Holocaust.

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MEL GIBSON

A few days ago, MEL GIBSON was arrested for drunk driving. During his arrest he threatened an officer and made anti-Semitic comments. He apologized saying he disgraced himself. I am here to say, NO APOLOGY CAN OR SHOULD BE ACCEPTED FROM MEL GIBSON
MEL GIBSON is a lucky man. His acting skills caused him to achieve both celebrity and financial success. His financial success affords him things most of society never experience.
There are those who financial success have done much for society. Bill Gates is an example of a man whose success has afforded him the opportunity to give back to the world. Bill Gates works hand in hand with his wife in trying to make changes that would improve the quality of life for many people.
MEL GIBSON is a man who looks at an Officer and tells him "I OWN MALIBU". Gibson would rather use his money and celebrity to cause the officer to lose his job. In other words, I am so powerful, I can f... up your life.
MEL GIBSON is an anti-Semite, a woman hater, a BIGOT. For over 20 years in the spotlight. Mel Gibson has made his "hatred of others" known with no consequence.
Unfortunately, Mel Gibson, does not care he is spreading hate and fear. Mel Gibson is in a position to influence minds.
There are two choices for how the public should handle MEL GIBSON. One choice is to not support any of his movies. The other choice is to have hime attend rehab for those who are prejudice. He must, as a public person, be held accountable for his hatred.
The world is at war with terrorism. Terrorists are unconventional in their methods. They use human shields to hide behind and UN officials and innocent people get killed. Perhaps we should send MEL GIBSON with his wife and children to the southern border of Lebanon. Perhaps if he and his family were used as a human shields, he may gain insight into "Those who hate".
Mel.. The Lebanese army has more than 80,000 soldiers. The Hezbollah fighters amount to 6,000.A Lebanese army of 80,000 can gain control of 6000 terrorists.
The Lebanese prime minister would have you believe its Israel. Its not "the f... Jew", as MEL said. Its not as MEL Gibson said."the Jews are resposible for all the wars in the world".
It's the Lebanese who wont stop them. The Lebanese refusal to use their 80,000 army is the problem. You, Mel Gibson are also the problem.
Your ignorance and prejudice is just as dangerous as the terrorist's. It is people like Mel Gibson who keep the hate and fear alive in the world.
Mel Gibson should not be afforded the status of a celebrity. He lacks the moral standards and is a terrible example of a human being.
There is no acceptable apology. I fear people who hate. I am a child of survivors of the Holocaust. I know second hand, what hate can do to a culture. The message my parents taught me was not just to worry about what society does to the Jewish people but look for and be concerned with how everyone is being treated in the world.
The larger lesson of the Holocaust was to fight for those people who cannot fight for themselves.
Mel Gibson, if you are not willing to take you and your family to Lebanon, then go to live in Haifa right now. Live in a place with your family where you get bombed every day. Live in the place you don't "own" and experience the 30 seconds you and your family have to run into a shelter. You will only become a human being when you directly experience hate and fear.
MEL GIBSON, you have been a privileged man. Its time for you to learn. Live in Haifa, amidst the suicide bombers, live where rockets are dropping. Live somewhere you don't OWN and learn what its like to be at the end of hate and fear. You MEL GIBSDON are part of the problem. Its time you became part of the solution.

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Sunday, July 23, 2006

"My" truth about relationships with working women with kids

I learned the hard way about the perils of getting involved with a working single mom with kids. I was involved with kids all my adult life. I worked as a camp counselor for as many years as I could before starting to work in the real world. I grew up in an extended family and "grew" up with everyone else's children.
Being the only person to not have my own children, I became an"honorary cool aunt" to all my friends kids. Then it happened. I got involved with a working women who had two boys living with her.
I cannot say and do not know any situation like thus but my own. Within a few weeks of starting this relationship, her older son had surgery. She asked me to take care of him when he was home from the surgery. This was my first mistake.
Having only known the women for a few weeks, I should have realized it was inaapropriate to "be a nurse" to her son so early on in the relationship. This should have been my first "BIG RED LIGHT".
Asking this early to stay home and take care of her son was an indicator of what was to come. I probably knew it at the time but chose to ignore it. Next and too early on in the relationship, we discussed "co-parenting". I was happy about this being that I had no children of my own. I should have realized this was a 'SECOND RED LIGHT".
...and third, when you hear a new lover say the words "I would never do what so and so did to you"... run out the door. This is the 'THIRD RED LIGHT'. If all of these things happen within a few weeks, then head for the hills. If gets worse, not better.
This working women wanted someone to take care of her kids and maybe a part time lover. Her kids wanted "mommy" all to themselves. "Mom" was so busy working they rarely saw her. The only feelings they had for me was a whole lot of anger because they wanted their mom, not me. It was alot easier for the kids to dislike me than to dislike mom.
I got involved with her kids helping them with homework, which "mom" had no patience to do, and driving them everywhere they needed to go. The more I did, the more they disliked me. "Mom " was little help in the situation with the kids. The discord brought the kids closer to her.
She would ask me to co- parent and then reverse every decision I made, rendering me ridicuolous. She undermined me constantly, then promised to not do it again. She repeated these empty promises. MORE RED LIGHTS!
In the end, "MOM" and I broke up. It has been years since I have seen these kids yet a recent incident made me see another "RED LIGHT'.
My life has gotten better in the years since we broke up. The relationship was difficult .It was a nasty emotional divorce. There were no lawyers or courtrooms, just the damage a lover can do.
I thought it was "IN THE PAST" until two days ago. I noticed a problem in an on-line internet account. I discovered it was "Mom's "younger son who had hacked into my account(s). My "RED LIGHT" button doesn't need to flash. The fact that years after the relationship, he would take the time to hack into an account of mine made me act quickly.
If he still holds feelings about me then this is my version of "Fatal Attraction". The only difference is it is the son and not the ex-lover. Fortuneately, the years give ME some wisdom and I did act quickly. I let the authorities know of this situation. I don't want to end up like Michael Douglas with a "dead rabbit" on the stove.
I believe my "ex- working mom" just wanted a babysitter. I believe she wanted to work more than she wanted to have her children. The children knew this and acted out then and are probably still acting out now. I don't think I would get involved with a women who has children. It is to loaded a situation. There is generally a messy divorce, lots of bad feelings and you start off with "laundry" you don't understand.
Life,like relationships, is complicated enough. I have enough of my own garbage to bring into any new relationship. I think I will try knowing someone for quite for time before I start "running" any errands. In fact, I don't want to run the errands anymore, I just want to enjoy the relationship.